The fastest way to abundance in your life is to list those things that you would have a hard time recovering if you were to lose them in a fire. For each weigh it against your spouse or child, your best friend or pet. The list should get shorter and shorter as you do this. You will find that other than pictures and kids pictures on the refridgerator, there is really nothing that even comes close!
With that reality in your head, everything you have, including your family is a sign of your abundance. If you have a roof over your head, food to eat, car or bike to drive; then you are abundantly rich in this world.